Good friends often have a multitude of qualities. So much so that in your circle of friends they will all complement each others good points and fill any gaps. Having said that here are ten of the best qualities that a friend can have:-
LOYALTY
If they are your friend, they should fight in your corner, be there for you and be loyal.
A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR
No-one likes to be around someone who is always a misery guts and no fun. In this life we all need to be able to laugh at ourselves and our surroundings sometimes. Anyone who is able to do this would make a great friend.
SENSITIVITY
An ideal friend has a sensitive side which would make them understand others feelings. Of course as your friend you would be doing the same for them.
INTELLIGENCE
Maybe it's just me but, although I don't need my friends to be 'Brains of Britain', I like some stimulating company. They do not need to be Einstein but they do need to have evolved from primitive man or woman into a civilised human being.
GOOD COMPANY
Everyone needs friends who are good to be around or what's the point. Ideally they will be fun, witty, entertaining and just good to be with.
THE ABILITY TO LISTEN
This means not just to listen a bit but really pay attention. If you are having a difficult time a friend should be able to listen properly whilst you pour your heart out, however long it takes.
HAVE GOOD SENSE
Much as we often ask friends advice and don't take it, we need them to have some common sense and point us in the right direction.
ABILITY TO BE FAITHFUL
Similarly to loyalty. However I mean faithful in that they don't just drop you when they have a better offer. A good friend should be able to make time for all their friends.
GENEROSITY
Good friends are generous with their time, money, possessions and knowledge. Best of all they have a generous spirit.
HONESTY
You need a good friend to be honest. They may visit your home regularly, borrow your possessions and your money, or maybe even your car. If you can't trust your friends then you are in trouble. This is a key quality.
All the above and more should be readily found in your good friends. It's a tough list I know but your friends would find these qualities in you, wouldn't they? I hope they would as that's what being a good friend is all about and we all deserve at least a few good friends.
hope we all has those qualities..insya Allah;)
